Those who follow me may have noticed I have changed my name and photo. I have decided it is time to get real on this blog. It’s time to tell the harsh truth about my marriage. …what I experienced, and what my kids experienced. But, that puts me….and them, potentially at risk. So, having an anonymous profile will make it safer for me to get real. My purpose for this blog is twofold : to be therapeutic for me, and potentially to help others. Being able to write more honestly will help me achieve both those goals….I hope.