Of all the challenges that come with the end of relationships, the silver lining always is that I am once again able to evaluate what I want my life to look like. I am in charge of my life and the direction it is going.
The truth is…I always am. But, when in a relationship, there is always some accommodating and compromising. It has to be that way to blend two lives together.
For now….I don’t need to do that. I can make sure I am once again grounded in who I am and what I want for my life. Then I will be able to do that accommodating and compromising once again without losing myself.
That is my goal.