For some reason , I think I was hoping that the more I understood and embraced the importance of vulnerability in my life, I wouldn’t have to keep facing it so much.
Wrong! I am chuckling a bit at myself about this.
The truth is, vulnerability is ever present if we choose to be in any relationships at all. It is inescapable. Unless we want shallow relationships with very limited intimacy, it is just part of the deal. Being close to someone makes us vulnerable.
It’s interesting how many people have said to me that they don’t know how I can put myself out there on the dating world. The truth is, it’s been so good for me. It has created so much personal growth for me to keep facing vulnerability over and over and over again.
Yes, it’s hard. But, the courage it takes to keep going, learning, and growing is worth it to me.